aria divine

Seeing a lady restrict herself to something as surface-level as her physical appearance and body measurements while she is trying to present herself as an escort bothers me. The way this small child is described reinforces unfavourable preconceptions and presents her as if she were just another object. This is so because the description emphasises mostly her physical attributes.

Apart from the fact that it is repugnant to restrict oneself to a mere collection of measures and physical characteristics, it also helps to sustain the negative belief that the value of a woman is defined just by her beauty. Individuals should be conscious of the concerning problem of someone defining themselves depending on their body size and breast size as if these are the only factors that make them desirable.

Moreover, the language used in the description—that of the words "sexiness" and being a "captivating girl"—degues this person to nothing more than an object of desire or want. One should not base their value on their appearance or capacity to meet another person's needs and preferences. This is a crucial aspect to keep in mind and one that you really should be constantly aware of.

The fact that some persons claim to be a "stunning private escort" should also cause us to stop. This helps to spread the belief that women—especially those from Asia—are mostly appreciated for their capacity to offer sex services. Asian ladies especially are this true. This kind of language reinforces the negative power dynamics found in the sex business and helps even more to objectify and dehumanise women.

One should remember that a person's value goes beyond their outward appearance and capacity to offer sexual services. Based on this conversation, this is the conclusion one should get. Every person has the right to be loved and respected for who they are as a whole human being rather than only for their appearance or capacity to meet the needs of another person. It is of the utmost relevance that we work towards the formation of a society that appreciates and respects all persons, regardless of their gender or background, and that we work relentlessly to eradicate negative stereotypes and objectification.